Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

Happy New Year Everyone!

I am so excited about this New Year and all that I know it will bring! Not just for me, but for my readers, the world, the Nancy 4universe and my cats.

What better way to start the New Year off but with a blog post? My resolution is to write much more frequently, so stay tuned, check back often and if Mistress is naughty, don’t be afraid to tell her so.

Crossdressing in a Time of Cholera.

christy web3My post today is on two recent sessions I had with the fabulous Nancy Darkrose and the captivating Christy Lee. These sessions were as different as they could be, yet remarkably similar. First, they were similar in the aspect of being the same customer base.

Both of these clients are straight married men. Both are successful. One is a father. Both like to have sex with women and are not bi or bi-curious. They are male in every sense of the role society has expected of them except for that one thing, crossdressing.

In other words, they are men who have a side to them that identifies as female. They wanted Miss J to capture this side because they know she is understanding and knows how to photograph beautiful women.

These ladies requested feminization and photography. Mistress J also knows a thing or two about makeup and application and total transformation were a part of these sessions.

Have I dazzled you with my talents yet? Keep reading, there is more.

I could go on and on about the cultural and psychological aspects to crossdressing, but alas, that is another blog post, and one I am not sure I want to get into. The bottom line is this: Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression.

Now, on to the fun stuff!


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Nancy submitting to Miss J

Nancy walked into my Sunnyvale studio and my jaw dropped at the sight of this powerful alpha looking male in front of me. Normally a woman of discretion and decorum, I blurted out “Are you really submissive?” Nancy laughed and said yes she was, but had to hide it in order to succeed in the high tech battleground of Silicon Valley. You see, Nancy had requested feminization and Femdom services. Not only did she want to be transformed into the lovely lady that lingered inside, she also felt the need to submit to a powerful and beautiful woman (me) and have this process documented on film. For the next 2.5 hours I brought Nancy out from behind the veil of masculinity and alternately teased, provoked, spanked, humiliated and exploited her. She loved every minute and left a satisfied customer.

What was so fascinating about this session was visually seeing and feeling the feminine side come out. Like I said, Nancy as a male is alpha. He exudes confidence and male energy. (He is also sexy as hell, but I digress.) As I slowly turned Him into Her, the mannerisms changed, the testosterone subsided, the submission took place and Nancy emerged. This does not imply that women are naturally submissive. The submission came about because she had the freedom to become herself and let go, under my guidance of course.

nancy(2)Who is Nancy? Nancy is a sassy gal who is also a bit of a bottom and likes it! Nancy loves bling, bold colors, big jewelry, leather boots and lacy drawers. She also enjoys being told what to do…

Christy Lee

I photographed Christy in my home studio. She arrived in a rather delicate emotional state. I am not quite sure what Christy does for work, but the minute I met her I knew I had found the kindred spirit of an artist. Christy, like many, have had to suppress and hide this side of her life, and after a brief discussion, I realized how much this pained her. To paraphrase and possibly misquote her “It feels so right, but we are told it is wrong.”


After going through her outfits and deciding on a wig, we applied her makeup and I custom blended her foundation.  When I showed her my handiwork she was so pleased. Again, during the transformation Christy emerged christy webfrom her male counterpart. I loaned her my jewelry for the shoot and even brought out my collection of vintage screw back earrings that belonged to my great Aunts.  I don’t use these very often because my ears are pierced. We chose an elegant black cocktail dress, reddish brown wig with highlights and pumps. The look classic and understated. Her words when she saw herself decked out “Pretty.”

Who is Christy? Christy is serene, a lady. Christy Lee is old school feminine. Doors are held open for her, chairs pushed in. She is dignity and class.

It means a lot to me to be able to share my gift of photography with people to bring out sides to themselves that might remain hidden. It shouldn’t have to be that way. That is why I created my studio.

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I look forward to more sessions such as this and of other kinds.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is  I am in San Jose, California.

5 thoughts on “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

  1. Roger says:

    So, The Mistress has made a resolution to write much more in 2013! The year is off to a good start already! You have a very special talent!

  2. Mistress J says:

    Thank you Roger, my favorite reader! Happy New Year!

  3. Roger says:

    Thanks so much for the kind words, Mistress J, and you have a Happy New Year too!

  4. christyleesf says:

    Miss J, You read me like a book! You have a gift of making someone feel at easy, and let them know that they should feel good about themselves, since society has cast such a negative vibe on anything that does not conform and not considered normal. I felt the time together was so magical, a place I always want to be, so I can just “relax” and not worry about the things that males are suppose to be the care takecare for 🙂 Next time we can be a bit naughty and show Christy take some chances from her gentle fem persona 🙂 Gender shall have no bounds no matter what sex someone is born in 🙂 Thanks for using your gifts to showcase my feelings 🙂 Christy…

  5. Mistress J says:

    The pleasure is all mine Christy!

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